Omg you guys are so funny, and no I don't live in an 8 plex I happen to own two houses..lmfao.


really? So which post were you lying on? This one or the ones on RUG

BadLuckMommy --- 17 days ago - quote
I live in Colyer Manor and I Love it! I live in the back (not the brick houses) and they are big.

BadLuckMommy --- 4 min ago - quote
I live in Colyer and we have started paying electric but Im not sure about the brick houses. I live at the top of Colyer (Not the brick ones). 

One of the mods started a vote, just for the mods to vote on, that I should have been a MOD and members commented that they wanted to vote and the MODS wouldn't allow it.
Only MODs can vote for that. I thought the people could vote too. Its not that we werent letting people vote, only mods can vote for that. The revolt meter is fixed and it goes up and then back down because nobody has a problem. There has been no drama on there or anything so I really think you are the only one unhappy. Also it is very very easy to accidentally delete a post...especially if you are on RUG on your phone...and it doesnt give a "are you sure you want to delete this" once that button gets hit its gone. 

sorry Kandice I'm not the only one when I personally get PM's commenting on you guys, they just dont want to waste time arguing with people that aren't willing to fix things. I'm sorry if you can't handle the fact that I am more then willing to speak my mind as you all do and I won't back down. I think it's wrong and I'll keep it going until it is fixed, bottom line. I didn't drag this into RUG like the MODS did who can't follow their rules set forth for them, hell I didn't even start this up again you all did! I'm just not going to stand by and take all of your BS and not say something back. 

Then use the dang revolt meter if you are not happy. Everyone knows to do it. I really do not understand why anyone else would be unhappy. Nothing ever goes on there. People ask for help and they get it. Drama hasnt been on there for a while...(actually you left for a bit and quit posting and there was no drama what so ever...and thankfully now that you're back it hasnt started back either) Everyone has followed the rules (other than some opsec violations that got deleted) If the people are unhappy they should personally PM the MODS, not you. You can speak your mind I just wanted to correct you on the other statment...we didnt make it where the members couldnt vote thats just how Adam made it. 

I've pushed the revolt button and it doesn't change. And as far as members messaging you why would they? You all say to PM you and not make it a public thread and when I did that BLM went into a thread accusing me of blowing up her inbox. I proved her to be lying, which is a pattern with her, and nothing was done about it. You three people are the "leaders" of RUG you have your own rules you are supposed to follow. Why is it that the three of you dictate what everyone can say and ensure members are following rules but none of you do the same? You hide behind freedom of speech but like I've said a million times if you are in charge and are expected to set an example for members then you need to edit yourself and think about what you are going to say. More times then not BLM is the worst at it, you are hypocrites and nothing is done about a situation.
And just to clarify I never went anywhere i came to RUG every day and if I didn't see something personally my sister let me know what was going on. I watched what you MOD's were saying and doing but made the decision to EDIT MYSELF, unlike you all do, because I knew it wouldn't get me anywhere! I can say the same thing till I'm blue in the face but you all will not come off of your high horses to change anything, and the first thing should be the MODS!
If you can't follow the rules set forth for you because you supposidly have too busy of a life to do what you are supposed to do as a MOD then you shouldn't have accepted the titel, bottom line! 

I dont know what RUG you are on but I dont see any of that. I dont use my mod powers and push people around. The people that have messaged me with stuff, I fix it. Sometimes I dont see things and I've had people message me about opsec and I'll go find it and fix it. If they have a problem I try to fix it. I havent brought any messages or anything to public. I follow the rules. I've never iced anybody or deleted crap just because. I did delete a thread the other day but its because it was a one big opsec violation and it was just easier to delete it and nobody had commented it in a while so I just went ahead and deleted it instead of editing everyone's comments. 

Ok you did blow up my inbox, and I posted those messages, so how was I lying? And yes I own two houses, both in Texas you stupid cunt! and Yes I do Live in Colyer which oh by the way are NOT 8 plexes. Like I said if you are so worried about dragging this on you know where I am. Be an adult and come talk to me. As for Ashley, no my education makes me a better person, and the hard work that I have put in to owning what I do. I wouldn't expect either of you to know what that feels like since you sit on your @ss all day and let your poor husband do all the work.

As for being an MOD, yeah we do our job, you PMed me and I gave a response, and then you started in just like you have done on this post. I don't need to be harrassed or stalked by some Physco!

So again you say I am lying everything you are saying can be proved wrong, just read through the damn threads on RUG you retard! 

Heather have you realized YOU are the only one on here complaining about MOD's. Where are all these so-called people that complain, and I want to hear a legit reason, not just because you don't like us. 

And yes the revolt meter is now working so click away, and lets have another vote! 

I am adult enough to leave things be and move on

hahaha so who's the retarded cunt? You are a compulsive liar who's husband is deployed and probably relieved to be away from you! You talk trash on stay at home mom's but seems more to me like you're jealous of the fact that you work in a sh*tty bowling alley bar and we don't have to! You talk about having better cars then people and you bought your sh*t from carmax!
You talk shit and use every excuse to be "the bigger person" then you post garbage on RUG.
Gee, I recall seeing something brought up in this post about people meeting people to "discuss" stuff and you as a MOD agreed that would never happen!
You try to make it out that you're better then everyone but you live in the TRASHIEST neighborhood on post, you work in a bowling alley bar and you drive a used car! LMAO REALLY?
GET OVER YOURSELF AND GO BACK AND CRAWL BEHIND THAT BAR YOU "RUN"! While you're boozing it up with Junction City's finest I'm at home with my husband and children! 

And yes the revolt meter is now working so click away, and lets have another vote!

I click it all day every day and it doesn't work! If you all are in charge of it then tha explains it! 

Clearly people can see she has issues and has some anger issues at us MODs, Sorry but i dont delete peoples comments just because they disagree with you. You are the one who dont understand how forums work and arguing a point right or wrong til hades freezes over is not going to make you right in other peoples eyes..you dont GET it ..you are opinionated but who isnt . the difference it you are uninformed or educated on most of what you are arguing against so you cant stand the debate or losing an argument.

yet again not everyone in the world has your views to do or say as YOU would that does not make them wrong.

I think the point that you are difficult is obvious and I hope you can move on as this is only an online forum and you are not changing anyones life they will do what they will do.

I dont care if you like me or not as your opinion is just that an opinion and i dont give a $hit if you like me or not ...you either do or dont and i dont know you personally so you mean nothing to me...just another name on a forum who thinks they know everything well good luck in your life and with your issues as you cant be reasoned with or understand how things work from your whole 80 or so days on RUG and most of those was b!tching.


so continue talking on here and complaining but you will waste no more of my valuable time to respond to your stupidity.

have a good day. 

THANK GOD HOPE. Take your own advice. What is it I don't understand? In kindergarten I learned about following rules. I learned that if there are rules set forth then you need to follow them. As a teenager starting my first job I was told my title and what was expected of me as an employee. Hell, before I accepted a job I was told what the qualifications and expectations were. If I didn't feel I could do the job then I didnt accept it. It has nothing to do with opinion, it's common sense. 

You talk about having better cars then people and you bought your sh*t from carmax!

Sure did, I have to Caddi's and what do you got? Like I said..HATER!!!

I am adult enough to leave things be and move on

Yup had to come back to set the record straight!

You try to make it out that you're better then everyone but you live in the TRASHIEST neighborhood on post, you work in a bowling alley bar and you drive a used car! LMAO REALLY?

Not the trashiest, and yup both my Caddi's which are new, are in prestine condition! Thanks so much!

like you're jealous of the fact that you work in a sh*tty bowling alley

Yeah the same Alley that is holding the fundraiser to help the same teacher that you donated too, Don't forget that!


The thing I find funny is you picked apart my whole post EXCEPT for the part that asked you where all these so-called people that hated us where?

You can taunt me all day long but in the end I am stillme, doing what I do. Seems like you can't grasp that in that small little brain of yours. I can sit here and degrade you all day. I mean your sister obviously got the better genes, she knows how to handle situations unlike her incompitent little sister!

You ask me not to talk crap on your mom yet you turn it around and say crap about mine. You need mental help..seriously. I think they have a hotline for that. 

hahahaha badluckmommy they also make medication for bipolar disorder and they have help groups for compulsive liars! You are so funny, do you need help climbing back on your high horse? And just to "set the record straight" I never asked you to stop talking about my dead mother, my sister did! Talk about her if it makes you feel better, obviously her feelings can't get hurt 

We are following those rules...thats the part that you are not following. Nobody is using their powers against you. I think you are just really really paranoid. Nobody is deleting your post or putting you in the icebox for no reason or anything. We're not doing it to anyone else either. That is what you dont understand. We knew what to expect because we have another crazy on that site that used to make you look like an angel, so we were ready for what was going to come. If anything this hasnt been as hard as I thought it would be. I knew there was going to be drama...its a forum open to public and most of them are women...theres going to be some amount of drama and I was ready for it...and I think we're doing a good job of keeping everything under control on RUG. 

hahahaha badluckmommy they also make medication for bipolar disorder and they have help groups for compulsive liars! You are so funny, do you need help climbing back on your high horse? And just to "set the record straight" I never asked you to stop talking about my dead mother, my sister did! Talk about her if it makes you feel better, obviously her feelings can't get hurt

Like I said your still avoiding the question. Do YOU need helping stepping down from your horse?

you turn everything I say around on me without getting to the point. Any 5 year old can sit here and degrade people, but I have made a point and you have still yet to make yours. We MODS DO IN FACT FOLLOW the rules, until you can prove that we don't your just sh!t out of luck now aren't you?

You can sit here and say hear say BS or you can prove it with FACTS. 

you turn everything I say around on me without getting to the point. Any 5 year old can sit here and degrade people, but I have made a point and you have still yet to make yours. We MODS DO IN FACT FOLLOW the rules, until you can prove that we don't your just sh!t out of luck now aren't you?

First of all I do not recall being the first one slinging mud here I just happen to be the first one to step up to you and not let you get away with it!.

As far as the mod rules, I suppose I'll post them AGAIN!

What guidelines do the mods follow?

They remove pornography, bad language, and other inappropriate content. They ice users that need to be removed from discussions. They set a good example of fairness, kindness, and goodness for the rest of the community.

Yes, as a citizen of the United States of America one of your civil rights is freedom of speech, no one ever denied that. On the other hand, if you put yourself in a position of leadership then you have to carry yourself differently.
Gloves off here BLM this is the point I've been trying to make from day one.
How can you, as a MOD, sit and edit other people's comments for not following rules but not edit your own?

I'm sure President Obama has his own personal opinion about certain issues but because he is a leader there are times he needs to keep his true opinion to himself and edit what he is going to say to set a good example for the rest of the country. Yes, it is a far cry to be president as being a MOD on a chat forum but it follows the same guidelines.
When this was brought up to you a month ago you argued that you are who you are and your opinions are your own and if people dont like it then dont read it. Fine, but when you agree to follow rules and enforce rules then that is what needs to be done.
Now, as far as the emails I got I would NEVER throw anyone under the bus. Obviously they don't feel comfortable saying something to the MODS because they know how it will be handled. I emailed people and asked them to say something but I will not put them on blast so you can attack them to.

Contrary to what you believe I do not hate any of you. I hate the fact that you flaunt your title as MOD but do not even follow the rules. I do not drive around looking for your house, I do not drive by your work or go in and make a scene but I will stand by what I think and if I think something is wrong or someone is being a hypocrite then I will point it out. I am not a MOD so have the right to do that. If I was a MOD I would filter myself because I would respect the forum I ran and I would respect the members.

Now go ahead, attack me all you want, accuse me of being a troll I don't care. I make valid points and I'm sorry if you can't accept being called out and the only way you know how to deal with it is to make low blows and talk down to people. 

Thats all I wanted from the get go. I have edited my own comments, even deleted threads that were created for information and used as a drama clog. These are the thing YOU do not see because you are not an MOD. Just because you do not see it, doesn't mean it is not getting done.



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Hope 2010-12-11 18:33:27 EDITCOMMENT COMMENT:30469905:[[OLD]]well heck duchess... u snuck back in at the last min... hell cookies for every1!!![[NEW]]well heck duchess... u snuck back in at the last min... cookies for every1!!!


~*Kandice*~ 2010-12-11 11:12:00 DELETETOPIC [[TOPIC:11585332]]Not even close to ready!

~*Kandice*~ 2010-12-09 07:12:57 EDITCOMMENT COMMENT:30457831:[[OLD]]My husband left March We never got family seperation pay till may 1st check. But they back paid us for it too. our 1st family seperation pay was 366 and then by the next month it had went back down to the regular 250 seperation pay.[[NEW]]My husband left March We never got family seperation pay till may 1st check. But they back paid us for it too. our 1st family seperation pay was 366 and then by the next month it had went back down to the regular 250 seperation pay.


~*Kandice*~ 2010-12-09 07:12:33 EDITCOMMENT COMMENT:30457831:[[OLD]]My husband left March 16th We never got family seperation pay till may 1st check. But they back paid us for it too. our 1st family seperation pay was 366 and then by the next month it had went back down to the regular 250 seperation pay.[[NEW]]My husband left March We never got family seperation pay till may 1st check. But they back paid us for it too. our 1st family seperation pay was 366 and then by the next month it had went back down to the regular 250 seperation pay.

BadLuckMommy 2010-12-08 21:09:05 DELETETOPIC [[TOPIC:11594249]]Need some help

BadLuckMommy 2010-12-08 21:03:28 ICE [[id:3858955]] YourExesWife iced. (Reason: she is being rude and making personal threats)

Thats just this month, not including the other months that we have been moderating. Hopefully that will give you peace of mind, and PROOF that we are doing our job!

Now that I have proved that is there anything else that you want to get off your chest, so we can return this help forum back over to serve its purpose? 

I am not a MOD so have the right to do that. If I was a MOD I would filter myself because I would respect the forum I ran and I would respect the members

I am not going to filter myself. I was elected because I am upfront and outspoken. I will let it be known if there is something wrong and I will deal with an issue when there is one. If you can act the way you want then so can I, its called EQUALITY! 

Come on BLM you have been posting indirect snide comments yesterday! You're right, I am not a MOD so I do not see what exactly you edit but I can see on several threads your snide comments, in fact I have flagged them! 

So have you, so I guess two wrongs dont make a right huh?

My question is where does this end. I mean seriously I have answered your questions, proved them in fact. You are NEVER satisfied. So once again after the second time of answer this same question, when is the next time you are going to bring this up? Its like beating a dead horse. Adam can see exactly what we type, when we type it..even if its in our PM's. If he thought I or any of the other MOD's weren't doing our jobs I'm sure he would have deleted us, or made a new vote. 

yes but I AM NOT A MOD! I obviously am following suit since you lead by example.

I will drop the subject when there is another vote for new mods. If you all are voted as MODS then I will keep my mouth shut. The comment was made that I haven't been on RUG very long but that doesn't matter. I've been on long enough to point out what is wrong and just to clarify my sister constatly sent me links to outragious things on this site AFTER you all were voted as MODS and that is why I finally joined. 

What part of the problem was fixed are you not understanding? 

I proved that we were doing our jobs and yet that isn't good enough. Now who is on the high horse? I will not change who I am, thats just not going to happen. Seems like if things don't go your way you panic and create drama. Just pointing out facts here so don't get it twisted. You can go through your posts and see when someone disagrees with you it gets ugly! 

that part. It was never fixed it was just dropped. It will be the same again in two weeks like it's always been. You asked me what needed to be done to resolve the issue and I told you, I'm sorry if you don't accept that but I'm sure I'm not the only member of RUG that feels this way.
Emails have been sent to this Adam person, not only from me, and nothing has every been addressed. Its obvious this has to be delt with by the MODS so deal with it.
I dont understand why you are getting so upset? You say you have a life beyond RUG and will not sit down and read everything and edit everything. You say that you were voted as a MOD so if you aren't threatened by the fact that you might not be revoted why not have another vote? 

I am not upset, just confused. So you are saying that if RUG isn't ran the way YOU want it to be ran you will continue this rant? That makes no sense. I told you when the revolt meter hits 100% then we will have another vote. I have yet to see more then 5 people out of the whole forum, say that we are bad MOD's. And yes I do have a life but obviously I can maintain this site and my family, and my job with no problems. I proved to you the issue was solved. Basically your saying that because you don't like the MOD's you will continue to argue and beat a dead horse? 

I wouldn't expect either of you to know what that feels like since you sit on your @ss all day and let your poor husband do all the work.
Excuse me? You are screwed azz. I have an assoc. and MANY CERTIFICATIONS!dOES THAT MAKE ME BETTER THEN YOU OR ANYONE ELSE? HELL NO! Doesn't make me any better then the homeless guy living under a box outside.I feel VERY bad for your husband you seem to be a materialistic little witch!I have an assoc degree and MANY CERTIFICATIONS! Guess what azzwipe? I DO NOT HAVE TO USE THEM!! HAAHA! Looks like your back tracking on where you live and now doing a cover up...stop the untruths it is really annoying! 

JUST ANOTHER TID BIT.....IF YOU HAVE suuuuuuchhhh AN IMPORTANT FLIPPIN JOB THAT MAKES SOOOOOO MUCH MONEY YOU FOR SURE WOULDN'T BE ON HERE EVERY 5 MINUTES. Get a life stop the lies! 

I wouldn't expect either of you to know what that feels like since you sit on your @ss all day and let your poor husband do all the work.
Excuse me? You are screwed azz. I have an assoc. and MANY CERTIFICATIONS!dOES THAT MAKE ME BETTER THEN YOU OR ANYONE ELSE? HELL NO! Doesn't make me any better then the homeless guy living under a box outside.I feel VERY bad for your husband you seem to be a materialistic little witch!I have an assoc degree and MANY CERTIFICATIONS! Guess what azzwipe? I DO NOT HAVE TO USE THEM!! HAAHA! Looks like your back tracking on where you live and now doing a cover up...stop the untruths it is really annoying!


The way you write is what makes you an uneducated person. My husband has read the post...says its sounds like some bored Army wives...and really its the truth! My kids are at school, my house is cleaned and I have nothing to do but wait until I go to work, and then you can talk all the crap behind my back. Cover up, nah...I'm too smart for that. Just ask anyone I know..oh thats right you don't live near me do you? You are just another person jumping on a bandwagon. Was it wrong of me to flaunt what I have, sure only because you guys are without because you dont work! Whos fault is that? Ugh YOURS, or you can blame it on your husband sense that seems to be the trend.