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Problem with mods on Riley underground

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heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

lmao so we are name dropping now? I could care less who goes there and now that I know you are there I would NEVER step foot in there again! Show your face anywhere around me and the situation will be delt with legally and publically. I'm sure you husband would love to hear about the way you are taking care of things while he is in a war. This conversation is over, I have all the proof that I need. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Have a nice day :) 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

oh I deffinately will, you do the same! ;) 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Will do! 

Sindera --- 11 years ago -

Hey ya'll! I'm actually not from Riley. I'm from Fort Polk, and I gotta say, I may not like Fort Polk, but man do I suddenly love my underground so much more.

Just as a "friendly" bit of advice to the moderators... and I do mean this in just a recommendation. Perhaps treating your members as if they mattered instead of telling them to "STFU" or "Chill Out" or "Get a life", would make them like you more. Their opinions don't have to be the same as yours, but that does not make their opinions wrong. The entire point of you being a moderator is to represent the group as a whole. If you can't listen to your members and look at their statements objectively, you shouldn't be leading them.

And I haven't read the whole forum, but everywhere I looked, there were bits of bashing and cruelty. Swearing and Porno are not the only things that don't belong on the forums. These were designed as a community to instill friendship, and an avenue for people to seek help.

I really am shocked that someone came to the moderators with a concern that things were not being handled... and instead of addressing that concern, they all had to defend themselves and create a problem about it. People should look to better things (and themselves), and you are all presented with an opportunity to do so. Will you continue the drama, or admit that drama is happening and that things need to change? Will you say it's okay because somewhere out there it's worse, or will you look at the other examples of better and strive for it? 

Kandice --- 11 years ago -

Perhaps treating your members as if they mattered instead of telling them to "STFU" or "Chill Out" or "Get a life"

We do treat our members like they matter. Heather is the only one that has a problem with the mods. The other members dont. We help members with problems and have a good time on our underground. We have asked and asked and asked what we need to do to improve some spoke up and that was fixed and now everything is running smoothly. No drama has been happening on our underground for a while now. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Stella, we addressed this situation 27 days ago, and it got so out of hand that she had to be iced. I agree with the lead by example, but I will not tolerate someone stirring up drama because she didnt get her way. Everything was explained to her before, yet she still doesn't seem to understand. I am only human. If you were being attack its human nature to defend yourself.

I admitted I was wrong, no where in this post did she admit she was wrong. You can't lead a horse to water. There are no issues on our site other then her issues. NO ONE has said anything about having an issue, as I stated before if there were legit complaints, and more people I would consider changing. I said it more then once. Not my fault she couldn't comprehend that. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Just FYI our revolt meter was set at 10% about an hour ago, it has since been reset to 7%. Thats just proof that we are not as horrible at doing this Job as she makes us out to be. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

WOW is all I have to say. Heather are you really that pathetic to call my work and LIE to the secretary! WOW so much for you acting mature. You are a compulsive liar.
Telling her I threatened to beat you up in Manhattan..please do show me where I posted that? And You told him you were having a fundraiser for the red cross in Manhattan and that I was going to skip work to be there..you are so childish. Although you did give me and the owner a good laugh...one word for you B!tch...UNTOUCHABLE!!!

Oh its also funny how your Flash Mob post was deleted...did you think I wouldn't copy and paste it after you making the threat that you had what you needed? Come on I have been on a forum way too long to know that you ALWAYS save info from TROLLS in case they pull childish sh!t like you..Oh and by the way calling someones work and trying to get them fired is HARASSMENT! 

Sindera --- 11 years ago -

Like I said, I didn't read it all, and I'm certainly not involved with all the past stuff... but I'm not impressed with moderators who use terms like "STFU" and "Get a life" (or trying to imply they are idiots, even if they are idiots). "Chill out" is acceptable in certain situations. I don't care how mad someone gets you, or deserves it, or is in the wrong... there is a right and a wrong way to handle things. If the government told everyone who was wrong to "STFU", we wouldn't make much progress. If you are in the right and have done everything you can, then walking away is better than confrontation. Clearly if nicely worded confrontations have not worked in the past... rude confrontations will not work either.

Best of luck with future drama incidents, as it is part of life to have them happen every so often. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

yeah I'd like to see how you would deal with this person as she calls your job and harasses your boss, not to mention tries to get you fired, and then threatens to call the cops. That is just beyond me. I take everything on here with a grain of salt. Its the NET. But for her to make it personal tells me that she has way to much time on her hands and that she needs to grow up. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

but I understand that is your opinion and you are entitled to it. 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

your words will fall on deaf ears with these people Stella. It took me a total of 8 minutes to research them online and found out exactly what kind of people they are!
I will not be threatened, or even have a threat implied towards me because someone can't handle the truth.
As long as I allow them to they will use me as a scape goat but I, along with other members of RUG, know the truth.
They are hypocrites who are members of several undergrounds but attack people that don't live here when they complain about the way they moderate the site. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Why did you call my job? On a serious note, what does my job have anything to do with what is written on this post. You degraded that establishment and then tell them you frequent there and because of me you will no longer be going back..really? How far will your lies go? 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

It took me a total of 8 minutes to research them online and found out exactly what kind of people they are!

Stalker much? 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

no you retarded idiot it's not stalking when you plaster it ALL OVER THE INTERNET! 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

yeah its stalking when you call my job and LIE and try to get me fired! Is this Highschool? Seriously Heather how old are you? 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

see you cant answer why the hell you called my job, sure your over opinionated about everything else, but really why stoop so low and take it off the net and get personal with it. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

I could have had you in trouble the first time you started slandering the Bowling Alley, you know you can get sued for that? I am not that petty though. But I will tell you if you keep on with the calls I'm going to see you in court, and BTW I have a great attorney so you better come prepared! 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

What did I lie about and when did I try to get you fired? Did I call? Yes, AFTER I spoke with an invesigator that I know and I was told to do so. I NEVER said anything about a fundraiser in manhattan, I never said anything about the redcross. I have no reason to lie! I told the idiot office manager that they had any employee there that I didn't know the name of that was making comments that could be taken as threats. That she would get time off of work to attend something at walmart tonight. I read her word for word what you wrote so this is just another case of you LYING, but you're so good at it it's hard for you to keep lies and the truth straight now, huh? 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

WOW YOU NEED HELP!!!!!! You lie so much you are starting to believe your own lies...unbelievable! 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

UNTOUCHABLE!!!

Oh its also funny how your Flash Mob post was deleted...did you think I wouldn't copy and paste it after you making the threat that you had what you needed? Come on I have been on a forum way too long to know that you ALWAYS save info from TROLLS in case they pull childish sh!t like you..Oh and by the way calling someones work and trying to get them fired is HARASSMENT!


then file a report because there was no harassment going on. It's obvious the people you work with are as stupid as you. I don't live in manhattan and do not go there. I am not like you and make up fake fund raisers to boost my ego so no I never said anything about the redcross or manhattan you idiot. I read what you wrote but what can you expect from someone associated with you, of course nothing will be handled.
Save everything you want because I too save everything and I have exactly what you wrote and what I wrote!

I'll be waiting for that police report or that protection order... 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

I have not once threatened you other then if you keep on with the harassment I WILL take you to court, and honey that ain't no threat its a f@cking promise! 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

But yeah all I mentioned is that I might drop by that Flash Mob, which is looking more and more promising. 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

Well I will leave you to your harassment and mental issues, my kids are home and they are way more important. Don't forget what I said. 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

take me to court "honey" for what? Are you that delusional? I will have my attorney turn right around and sue you for abuse of the legal system and put you right in the place that you belong! You think you are untouchable but you are sourly mistaken! You are held to the same laws I am 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

Don't forget what I said.

wow another threat? You're just on a roll aren't you?? 

BadLuckMommy --- 11 years ago -

its a simple statement...Don't forget what I said...simple as that..nothing more...your problem is you read into things too much..too bad the court cant prosecute me for you reading in between the lines, reading sh!t that is not there!

ok now I am off..lol 

heatheranne172 --- 11 years ago -

it's not a simple statement when it is put together with other "simple statements" you have made. There is no reading between the lines when it comes to someone like you! 

Im in LaLa Land --- 11 years ago -

I am kind of biased on this situation because I had a similar situation happen to me. BLM I Feel for you. I know that you want to defend yourself because she is making negative comments but just walk away. She has already called your job, and according to her an investigator which tell you that she has way too much time on her hands. Be the bigger person and walk away. Like I said I have had this happen to me before where I had a female that was jealous of me stalk me. It was her obsession to try and make my life hell. Although it didn't work because I walked away. Don't let this cold hearted woman get to you. I have seen the good you do with charities, and with DREAM. People are hating you because they are jealous. If I and the other MODS have stood up for you that says alot. Would have been on earlier but I didn't get a lunch break.thanks for posting the link though! 

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